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Episode 19: Sisters Before Misters

CommuniTEA….It’s another Saturday drop and we’re coming in hot!!!! Like spilling piping hot TEA!!!! So, let’s talk about navigating friendships while in relationships. Now, to be clear, we don’t think these two things should ever be in competition with each other, but sometimes it seems like that’s the case and in this episode we explore these dynamics.

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Episode 18: Sacrifice For Love

Sounds like a Nollywood movie, but honestly communiTEA you know we had to go there. In the spirit of Easter and the sacrifice God made for us, we decided to talk about the sacrifices that we’ve made in our relationship. We joke and laugh about them now, but in the moment addressing these sacrifices were an arduous task.

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Episode 14: Are You The One?

Hey communiTEA!!!!!! Hope you’ve had a great week so far and you’re ready to dive into this week’s episode. We don’t know about you, but when the conversation about relationship and marriage come up, someone always asks how do you find the one or how do you know he/she is the one? Surely, you’ve heard some form of this this statement at some point. Right?

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Episode 11: First of All...Introductions

We realized we had been giving y’all a lot of subject themed episodes and we decided to drop a story time this time! On this episode, we’re talking about meeting the parents while we were dating. Usually, depending on the type of family you come from, introducing a significant other can be nerve racking. For some, you never bring it up until you’re ready to get married while for others, you start the introductions from the get go.

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Episode 9: Valentine Is Coming

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY FRIENDS!!!!!!! Do you celebrate Val’s day or are you anti-capitalist celebrations? In this mini episode, we share our past valentine’s day experiences or lack thereof. These stories might have you shook when you hear them, so brace yourself. How far is too far when it comes to giving gifts? Also whose parents sent their spouse a live teddy bear? It’s shorts and sweet , but packed with a ton of stories.

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Episode 5: Catching Flights and Feelings

Anyone else scream the Brandy lyrics, “this long distance is killing me?”

Well, on this episode we spill all the “TEA” about our long distance relationship. Let’s just say it wasn’t everyone’s cup of tea. Who do you think hated it the most and why? Honestly, while it was a whole ordeal, we reminisce on the benefits that came along with the journey. It wasn’t all a bed of roses, but you’ve got to listen to the episode to know more.

Also, are we going to talk about how going from long distance to an in person relationship is a TRANSITION!!!!!!!! Anyone else with us in this? Please share your stories so we know what it was like for you. Did you move into a neutral place or into one of your spaces?

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Episode 4: From The Desk To The Bed

In this episode, we talk about how Kola jumped all the way from the friend zone into a highly unexpected relationship. To be honest, it was unexpected on both our ends especially after the random phone call that turned things around. Trust me, you want to hear how this “emotionally unavailable” man did the randomest thing that turned into exposing his feelings.

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