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Episode 20: Can You Pay My Bills?

Cue music….can you pay my bills, can you pay my telephone bills? Do you pay my automo’ bills? If you haven’t been able to guess what today’s topic is about, let us help you decode. On this episode we’re talking about MONEY and more specifically money within relationships. Take a deep breath in and then out! We know this one can take the wind out of most people, but we have to talk about it.

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Episode 18: Sacrifice For Love

Sounds like a Nollywood movie, but honestly communiTEA you know we had to go there. In the spirit of Easter and the sacrifice God made for us, we decided to talk about the sacrifices that we’ve made in our relationship. We joke and laugh about them now, but in the moment addressing these sacrifices were an arduous task.

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Episode 17: Do I Move In?

CommuniTEA…..Hope you’re all having a great weekend? Anyway, sometime this week, we had listened to a conversation about cohabitation and we thought it’s be a great conversation to bring to the podcast. On this episode, we share our thoughts on living with a significant other prior to marriage. Are there pros and cons you might ask? Well, we try our best to delve into that question as well as a host of others.

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Episode 15: What I Learned About Myself

Hey hey communiTEA!!!! This episode is essentially self awareness central. We decided to sit back and reminisce on the the things we discovered about ourselves when we started dating. Some were good, some were bad, but generally it’s our honesty for us. Do you ever sit back to evaluate yourself, your actions and behaviors especially within relationships, friendships and even family?

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Episode 12: East X West

Stereotypes!!!!! What roles do they play in your relationship? Given that we’re from different cultures, we’ve always had to navigate stereotypes brought on by ourselves and others. Let’s just say your subconscious stays packing a bit of implicit bias and it happens to make its way into conversations, arguments etc. In today’s episode, we discuss some of the things we were surprised to learn about each other when we started dating.

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Episode 11: First of All...Introductions

We realized we had been giving y’all a lot of subject themed episodes and we decided to drop a story time this time! On this episode, we’re talking about meeting the parents while we were dating. Usually, depending on the type of family you come from, introducing a significant other can be nerve racking. For some, you never bring it up until you’re ready to get married while for others, you start the introductions from the get go.

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Episode 4: From The Desk To The Bed

In this episode, we talk about how Kola jumped all the way from the friend zone into a highly unexpected relationship. To be honest, it was unexpected on both our ends especially after the random phone call that turned things around. Trust me, you want to hear how this “emotionally unavailable” man did the randomest thing that turned into exposing his feelings.

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